Congratulations, the first step in a new adventure, My oldest is 44, my youngest is 34, lots of great times and a few harrowing experiences as well.
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Along the lines of unfairness and the terrible responsibility women bear, you might enjoy this:
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https://medium.com/politically-speaking/pro-life-fine-lets-talk-about-daddy-s-role-d88d168ba1e1
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I thought you'd been a little quiet--now I know why. Exciting times, I wish you the very best.