I've had my share of medical problems. I found I was kept awake by thoughts leaving a disorderly mess behind. So I spent a couple of weeks compiling a notebook of all of life's little details that I need to pass on. Accounts, passwords, will, a sort of history of the home we have lived in for the past 38 years. Along with a list of things I never got around to fixing. For me it was one surgery that changed my life. I went from a hardy do-it-yourselfer to an old guy struggling with mobility. I sleep better knowing that my affairs are in order...as they say.

Best of luck to you and your wife.